KEN REID COUNSELLING
WANT THE HELP OF A COACH WHO COMBINES MINDFULNESS AND ACCOUNTABILITY TO HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR MAN?
As a gay man, I get how hard dating is. You might have thought and felt that...
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"I'm constantly dating the wrong guys...:
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"Gay guys don't do monogamy"
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"There are no good guys in my location"
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"I'm not attractive enough to be with a guy"
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"Dating sucks, there are no honest guys out there..."
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"I don't trust other gay guys..."
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"I'm worried I'm going to die alone..."
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I get it and I completely hear you as I used to feel the same way completely. All of my clients who have come to me have felt similarly as well and none of them have been deeply flawed, unworthy or in the wrong location to find love.
It turns out they have the emotional availability, honesty, and communication skills to attract the right guys and some have gone on to be in partnership with men who make them feel secure!
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So if you want to do the same and get out of the confusion of online dating and be in your ideal relationship whilst working on your insecurities and anxiety around dating, let's work together!
WHO IS THIS FOR?
Are you experiencing...
a lot of frustration from dating and still falling for guys that seem great at first but lose interest very quickly?
Are you experiencing a lot of heartache from a breakup?
Are you concerned that there may actually be no guy out there for you?
Are you...
constantly spending time on Tinder, Hinge, Grindr, Bumble, etc, going on dates that lead no where or feeling heartbroken and now you're looking for 1:1 attention from an expert to help you overcome your challenges, identify the red flags in people and to help you identify the right guy?
Do you want...
to finally feel like you're able to identify the right guys from the wrong guys, feel more confident in dating, not feel anxious when you like a guy and self-sabotage, and finally enter a relationship whilst also feeling heartbreak proof and able to overcome future relationship challenges?
"Thanks to Ken, I am now happily dating a guy who potentially could be the one. Initially, I had so much fear and anxiety dating this guy that I like a lot. But with Ken's help, I was able to identify my relationship blindspots and break my self sabotaging patterns."
- Eric F
How my program works...
REFLECT
Part 1.
During the first 3 weeks we focus on your past dating history. This helps me understand you better and the decisions you make in dating and how they impact your wellbeing.
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We will start working to identify your blind spots, the red flags in the past relationships and help you understand the patterns of behavior that keep you stuck in dating.
DISCOVER
Part 2.
The next 2 weeks we focus on who YOU want to become and the kind of many you want to be with.
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We will take the time to also understand the kind of relationship experience you want and who you need to become in order to date the man you want to be with in your future relationship.
This will help you stand out to the right man.
DATE
Part 3.
The next 3 weeks are all about teaching you how to stand out on the dating apps to attract the right guys, learn how to communicate confidently without people pleasing and learn how to let go of the wrong people without feeling bad.
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You will feel more confident, at ease and also more secure in your attachment as you date guys and you'll feel resilient against rejection and codependency.
"After completing Ken's course, I feel confident about myself and my appearance. And I feel confident that I can communicate my needs openly and securely.
The conversations I have with people on dating apps and in person are much better. I can openly and securely communicate my needs to someone, and not feel crushed when things don’t go exactly how I might want them to.
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I’m so much more confident, I know what I want, and I’m able to communicate my needs to others. My whole life has changed and I couldn’t be happier."
- Daimon S
Includes:
✓ - 8 x 60 min. coaching sessions
✓ - A personalised dating roadmap designed for you based on who you are and the kind of relationship you desire, taking into account your love languages and attachment style.
✓ - Confidence and clarity on how to identify red flags in your partners and in yourself so you can learn how to avoid self-sabotage and time wasting with the wrong guys.
✓ - An understanding of how to overcome any anxiety you face in dating and how to recognise your intuition so you can identify the guys that are right for you.
✓ - Access to me between sessions and to help you with accountability.
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After completing Ken's course, I feel confident about myself and my appearance. And I feel confident that I can communicate my needs openly and securely. The conversations I have with people on dating apps and in person are much better. I can openly and securely communicate my needs to someone, and not feel crushed when things don’t go exactly how I might want them to.
I've thoroughly enjoyed working with Ken. As a gay man, it makes a world of a difference receiving this guidance, validation, esteem building, from another gay man who has been down this path.
The one-on-one coaching has been extremely helpful with concrete, actionable steps we've worked on together for me to execute, which have helped me stop my emotionally addictive cycles and behaviours, break the pattern, and catapult the emotional recovery from the heartache.
After working with Ken, I feel empowered , calm, re-focused on my strengths & weaknesses and what I am looking for in a long-term partner, future husband. I also appreciate that Ken's gay and can relate to gay dating life and helping to establish “baselines” of social norms amongst gay men who are dating.
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I would highly recommended the “Find My Man” program to anyone who is questioning, searching for my insights into dating and relationship building with a goal in mind for finding a life-time partner. strategic approach to meeting and dating new men.